Why Are We Afraid Of Each Other?

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2068242025_994f729d50We’ve all been there…. that moment in a crowded room where all you feel is lonely.  You stare at the faces around you and want to run because you know that everyone must see how much turmoil in is your eyes and in your life.  Their lives must be so much more perfect than yours.  You smile and hide what you are really feeling for fear of feeling ashamed, rejected, or bringing others down with your problems.  You walk around in complete loneliness with the fake smile, holding in all of the feelings of whatever you are dealing with in your life that is weighing you down.  Why are we so afraid of each other?  Have we become so good at covering up our feelings and going through the motions of the days that no one really sees each other’s hearts or struggles?  Or is that we don’t WANT to see each other’s problems because we don’t want to take the time to be there for one another with a listening ear, a hug, a supportive hug or words of encouragement because we are too wrapped up in our own problems?

If you are suffering and are feeling incredibly lonely in a world of people who don’t seem to care, there is One who will never leave you alone.   Jesus is with you when you are in the pit and no one else is there.  When I begin to feel like I’m alone, or misunderstood, I think of the Apostle Paul.  He sat time after time in a prison all alone.  There is no other way to explain the love and compassion and determination he exhibited by writing about Jesus and what kind of people we are to be while sitting in a dark, dingy jail cell other than to say that Jesus was with him.  He was alive in his heart and breathing words of love into his heart with promises and love that is greater than all of us.  He was ALIVE in Paul.  Just as He is to be alive in US.  He breathed life into us and created us in His image.   There is no way we will ever be alone.  At times we may feel lonely, but God promised He would never leave us alone.  “Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5 

With Jesus living within us, we should always remember to turn to our loving Father for peace and reassurance.   We should not be afraid of each other and of sharing our troubles with one another.  It doesn’t matter how shameful, how embarrassing, how degrading or even silly it may seem.  God put us on this earth for each other.  He recognized that two were better than one.  So why do we avoid getting too close?  Because we all feel we have a story or a secret that may just be too much for anyone to handle or we think that no one really cares about what pain we are feeling because they’ve heard it already.  Nonsense!  We are God’s people who are called to live a life of humility, forgiveness, and love.  We are to count on each other in good times and bad.  We should not only celebrate with one another, but grieve with one another as well.  These are the things that make our relationships through Him more special and cherished than others.  One of the best examples of a friendship that is possible for all of us was shown to us by Ruth.  “But Ruth said, “Do not urge me to leave you or turn back from following you; for where you go, I will go, and where you lodge, I will lodge. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. “Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. Thus may the LORD do to me, and worse, if anything but death parts you and me.” When she saw that she was determined to go with her, she said no more to her.”  Ruth 1:16-18

women-hugging2Wake up everyday and know that you are never alone.  Don’t be afraid of one another.  Reach out for prayers, love, or a helping hand.  None of us live perfect lives with no problems; therefore, we all need each other.  Let down your barriers and let others love you and be there for you; at the same time, do that for others.  What a blessing we can all be to one another and imagine how much more we will feel Jesus’s love for us through our friendships. “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor.”  Ecclesiastes 4:9

Be blessed,
Melanie

 

 

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